Men of Valor think on this:

🌿💫Erection is a b state of arousal of sexual desires in a man in preparation for sexual exploit.

🌿💫Having an erection is natural but obeying the dictates of your erection is a choice.

🌿💫For every erection, there's a responsibility. Wise men have control over their erection but foolish men obey their erections.😰

🌿💫Any erection not properly controlled is capable of leading one to early grave☠.

🌿💫Unsolicited erection is no respecter of persons.

🌿💫Anointing, righteousness, strength, age etc has no power over erection, only self-control and self discipline can curb an erection.😊

🌿💫Many became useless fathers because they didn't control their erections.

🌿💫👮‍♂Some are in prison because they followed the dictates of their stupid erection.

🌿💫Others have lost great opportunities in life because their erection pushed them.

🌿💫🛌Some are bed-ridden at the altar of uncontrollable erection.

🌿💫The stupidity of erection is that most times it isn't selective.

🌿💫��Unchecked erection has led great kings to be at the bed of their slaves and maids.

🌿💫Stupid erection has led some to sleeping with their blood sisters👺.

🌿💫Erection has not left the clergy out of the drama as many have been found messing up with those they ought to be Shepherd over. What a stupid erection!

🌿💫💪A strong man is not measured by the level of his physical muscle or by the number of nations he has conquered but by his ability to control his erection.

🌿💫 No man in history could be said to be more powerful than Samson yet his erection made him the weakest in history, his erection made him fall at the lap of a woman.

🌿💫 David killed Goliath and conquered many great nations but he couldn't conquer his erection, he became weak at the sight of Bathsheba, the wife of his servant.

🌿💫Reuben ruined his future and generation after him because of his uncontrollable erection.

🌿💫Don't let your erection destroy your destiny!

🌿💫Your erection is a sign you are a real man but following it to everywhere it leads you is a sign of weakness😒.

🌿💫Any man who cannot control his erection can't control his life.

🌿💫😊😘The only time your erection cannot mislead you is when you use it within the confines of your marriage.
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🌿💫Stop following your erection, follow your vision.💫🌿
Unto Him who is able to keep us from falling I commit each and everyone
of us we shall all finish well and finish strong

The Differences Between A Man And A Boy!

A BOY keeps a password on his cellphone, while a MAN is confident enough to say "baby, can you answer that for me?"

A BOY runs the streets and frequents the club, while a MAN is enjoying time with his WOMAN, planning ahead for their future.

A BOY complains about spending too much time with his girl, while a MAN plans vacations and getaways, because he is wise enough to know that tomorrow isnt promised.

A BOY has pride after arguments, a MAN has a heart and emotions.

A BOY beats his girl at any slightest provocation, a MAN massages and caresses her.

A BOY screams gold-digger for the simple things his girl wants, a MAN says, if it makes you happy, let's get it.

A BOY tells his girl only the things she does wrong, a MAN acknowledges her true love and hard work.

A BOY has many side chics, a MAN maintains his woman with utmost loyalty and love.

A BOY tells his girl she is pretty, a MAN tells his woman she is beautiful.

A BOY will read this and think it's about him and a MAN will read it and acknowledge what he needs to fix in his relationships

MY ADVICE TO ALL LADIES

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

Who calls you back when you hang up on him.

Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay away just to watch you sleep... Wait for a boy who kisses your forebead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who thinks you're just as pretty without make-up on.

One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you...

The one who turns to his friends and says, "That's her...".

INVOLVE GOD IN ALL YOUR ACTIVITIES

1. *Beauty* is not a guarantee to marriage

2. *Falling Sick* does not mean you are about to die.

3. *Getting rich* is not the definition of prosperity.

4 *Building a nice house* is not enjoying luxury.

5. *Sleeping on an expensive bed* does not bring you sound sleep.

6. *Driving a new car* is not a guarantee that you gonna reach where you going.

7. *Wearing expensive clothes* does not guarantee smartness.

8. *Owning a family doctor* does not guarantee permanent health.

9. *Being highly educated* is not a sign of wisdom.

10. *Marrying a rich guy* does not guarantee happy marriage.

11. *Winning an argument* does not mean that you were correct.

12. *Whatever is done without the merit of Heaven* is fake and temporal.

13 *He who builds without God* is building for nothing; & he who *watches over a city* without God, watches in vain.

14. *Not everything is possible with man but everything is possible with God.*

15 *Be wise and learn to Involve God* in everything you do.

44 THINGS A GIRL WISHED HER BOYFRIEND KNOWN

1. When you break her heart,the pain never really
goes away
2. When she misses you, she's hurting inside
3. When she says it's over, she still wants you to be
her's
4. When she walks away from you mad,follow her
5. When she stares at your mouth,kiss her
6. When she pushes or hits you,grab her tight and
don't let go
7. When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her
you love her
8. When she ignores You, give her your attention
9. When she pulls away,pull her back
10. When you see her at her worst,tell her she's
beautiful
11. When you see her crying,just hold her and don't
say a word
12. When you see her walking,sneak up and hug her
waist from behind
13. When she's scared,protect her
14. When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her
head up and kiss her
15. When she steals your favorite jacket,let her keep it for a night
16. When she teases you, tease her back and make
her laugh
17. When she doesn't answer for a long time reassure
her that everything is okay
18. When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth
19. When she says she that she really like you, she
really does more than you could understand
20. When she grabs your hands,hold her's and play
with her fingers
21. When she bumps into you,bump into her back and make her laugh
22. When she tells you a secret,keep it safe and untold
23. When she looks at you in your eyes,dont look back
until she does
24. Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying
anything 25. Don't let her have the last word
26. Don't call her hot,but gorgeous or beautiful is so
much better
27. Say you love her more than she could ever love
you
28. Argue that she is the best girl ever
29. When she's mad,hug her tight and don't let go
30. When she says she's ok, don't believe it,talk to her
about it, because 10 yrs later she'll still remember it
31. Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her
you love her
32. Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
33. Treat her like she's all that matters to you
34. Don't ignore her when she's out with you and your
friends
35. Stay up all night when she's sick
36. Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite
show even when you think it's stupid
37. Let her into Your world
38. Let her wear your clothes
39. When she's bored or sad, hang out with her
40. Let her know she's important
41. Kiss her in the pouring rain
42. When she runs up at you crying,the first thing you say is" whose ass am I kicking today baby?
43. After she reads this, she hopes one day you will
read it too
44. When ever she reads something like this, she must
surely like it or comment on it

Is Dating A Hard Thing??

It's better to be single than to be in a teary relationship.

Dating is becoming hard these days because of hidden motives, zero transparency, everything is hidden, age, faith, education, character, lifestyle, Feelings, even names....

A lot of people are not honest with their intentions and emotions..

Anyone can say " I Love You" but not everyone can wait to prove it's love.

WHAT MAKES DATING HARD:

√🤗 Undefined purpose & Mission...

√🤗 Lack of Self control...

√🤗 Wrong mentality about SEX...

√🤗 Wrong Advice...

√🤗 Love of money & material things...

√🤗 Pretence and lies....

√🤗 Bad or wrong foundation...

√🤗 Following the crowd....

√🤗 Past experience....

WHEN DATING IS HEADING TOWARDS A WRONG DIRECTION:

~🤔 whenever you no longer feel his/ her presence emotionally and physically.

~🤔 When more focus is on discovering faults and yielding to weakness

~🤔 When there is a gap in communication and divided attention( I will call you back but will never call, unless you call again)

~🤔 When there is new rules and regulations ( Don't go through my phone and i will not go through yours too)

~🤔 Dont wait for me ooo ( If you see someone you can marry)

~🤔 When your relationship no longer makes you happy ( We are just there)

~🤔 When behavior and actions are repeated, despite corrections and apology.

~🤔 Constant conflict in conversation and discussion.

~🤔 When quality time is not given to the relationship( Always "I will")

SOLUTION:

😁√ There is every need to seat down and talk( Not in the room or hotel but in a garden or quiet environment)

😁√ Time to face reality and overlook emotions.

😍√ We are into this together, therefore we must sort it out together or peaceful separation.

😍√ Let's delete SEX and see if we LOVE beyond sex.

😍√ Lets build more on friendship and avoid public show.

😍√ Let's turn our WEAKNESS to our STRENGTH..

😍√ Let's avoid SUSPECTING and allow TRUST to override us..

😍√ let's believe we are the BEST and avoid DISTRACTION.
Love with purpose..(with a view for marriage)

Be real and never fake..(be John and not Johnson).
Be honest with your intentions..

In God We Trust.

GUYS ONLY: 3 THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO FIND YOUR DREAM WOMAN

Finding the dream woman isn’t as easy as the headlines make it seem, however, we can’t deny that oftentimes, some men are the ones who make life hard for themselves. You cannot get something unless you show hunger and desire to get it.

There are too many guys who either deliberately or not, have closed themselves off to the possibility of finding love. Unless you open up yourself, that cannot change.

Now, let’s delve into those things you got to let go.

*BE OPEN TO POSSIBILITIES*

There are a lot of men who either because they’ve suffered heartbreak in the past or sheer fear, have closed themselves from the possibility of falling in love with a real woman. They only care about enjoying themselves with the next available lady. But unless you open up your mind and yourself to the truth that you could actually find someone amazing, and have a wonderful relationship with them, you will continue to stay within the confines you created for yourself. The mind is powerful. It only works with what it is fed.

*OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION*

The only reason a lot of guys are struggling to find their dream woman isn’t because of anything else, but the fact that they’re afraid of what the response or reaction could be. Because they can’t handle a woman saying ‘no’, they ignore and miss the good women they could have hooked up with.

You cannot fear what you do not know. The only way to know is to try and give it a shot. Do not be limited by fear. Even if a woman decides to turn you down, it doesn’t mean others will do the same. Learn to be confident and positive in your dealings. It’ll probably surprise you to know how many women actually like you back.

*ELIMINATE FEAR OF COMMITMENT*

We have all heard stories of our friends and people around us who suffered horrible heartbreak, or those whose emotions were toiled with just because they committed too much in their relationships. But it’s not always like that. Just because a few women have been bad to men you know doesn’t mean the next will be the same way to you. There are relationships that actually work, and you need to have faith in that reality. Most women only want to be in a committed relationship, so if you’re offering less, you’re likely to miss them.

*ISMMY CARES*
Finding the dream woman isn’t as easy as the headlines make it seem, however, we can’t deny that oftentimes, some men are the ones who make life hard for themselves. You cannot get something unless you show hunger and desire to get it.

There are too many guys who either deliberately or not, have closed themselves off to the possibility of finding love. Unless you open up yourself, that cannot change.

Now, let’s delve into those things you got to let go.

BE OPEN TO POSSIBILITIES

There are a lot of men who either because they’ve suffered heartbreak in the past or sheer fear, have closed themselves from the possibility of falling in love with a real woman. They only care about enjoying themselves with the next available lady. But unless you open up your mind and yourself to the truth that you could actually find someone amazing, and have a wonderful relationship with them, you will continue to stay within the confines you created for yourself. The mind is powerful. It only works with what it is fed.

OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION

The only reason a lot of guys are struggling to find their dream woman isn’t because of anything else, but the fact that they’re afraid of what the response or reaction could be. Because they can’t handle a woman saying ‘no’, they ignore and miss the good women they could have hooked up with.

You cannot fear what you do not know. The only way to know is to try and give it a shot. Do not be limited by fear. Even if a woman decides to turn you down, it doesn’t mean others will do the same. Learn to be confident and positive in your dealings. It’ll probably surprise you to know how many women actually like you back.

ELIMINATE FEAR OF COMMITMENT

We have all heard stories of our friends and people around us who suffered horrible heartbreak, or those whose emotions were toiled with just because they committed too much in their relationships. But it’s not always like that. Just because a few women have been bad to men you know doesn’t mean the next will be the same way to you. There are relationships that actually work, and you need to have faith in that reality. Most women only want to be in a committed relationship, so if you’re offering less, you’re likely to miss them.

LADIES ONLY: 12 RULES YOU SHOULD KEEP IN ORDER TO ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE

Marriage isn’t a bed of roses, no matter how much anyone tries to paint it otherwise, but that doesn’t imply in any way that you cannot enjoy it.

The reason a lot of women fail to enjoy theirs is because they have allowed themselves be brainwashed into living by society’s rules and standards, instead of staying true to the cores of marriage.

To enjoy your marriage as a woman, you need to be able to make your partner happy, and that cannot happen unless you keep to the following rules.

1. Do not raise your voice to your man; that’s disrespectful.

2. Do not expose his weakness(es) to family and friends, because it just bounces back to you. You are supposed to be his protector.

3. Do not communicate with him using attitude and moods, he may misinterpret it.

4. Do not compare your man to other men – it only bruises his ego, and that can dent his love for you in the long run.

5. Do not punish his friends because you ‘do not like them’. That isn’t your responsibility, but his.

6. You’re your husband’s wife; do not delegate your responsibilities to another woman – your kids or maid.

7. Do not talk him down because he didn’t come back with things you expected. If anything, you should be lifting his spirit.

8. Do not be wasteful. Manage the resources you have carefully.

9. Always remember that s*x is important in marriage. Never deny him of such pleasure to hurt him or pass a point.

10. Do not disrespect your man before his own children. That can destroy him in so many ways.

11. You must cater for him physically too, in the sense that you make sure he looks as good as you want your man looking. If he goes out looking awful, you’re the one who will also be dragged.

12. Keep your friends at arm’s length from your man and marriage.

18 WAYS PEOPLE EXPRESS LOVE

Love comes in different ways. Some like to say what they feel, and there are others who would rather express or show it. Love is a language, and it’s spoken in different forms.

So what are the ways love is expressed? What are the signs someone loves you?

THEY WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU OFTEN

When someone is crazy in love with you, it isn’t uncommon for them to want to hear you all the time.

WITH YOU, TIME IS NOT OF THE ESSENCE

If I love you, I want to be around you as much as possible, and I can move mountains, and change so much just to make it stay that way.

THEY PUT YOU AHEAD ALWAYS

It may seem far-fetched, but it isn’t unusual for people who are in love to cancel important appointments just to be with their love interests.

THEY WANT TO SHOW YOU OFF

When a person does not hesitate to introduce you to his/her friends, it is a sign that he or she is deeply in love with you.

THEY CAN’T SEEM TO STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU

If whenever and wherever they find themselves, they’re talking about you positively. That’s definitely love.

THEY SHOW GENUINE CARE

Constantly wanting to know if you are safe, like whether or not you arrived home safe after an outing is another sign that he or she is deeply in love with you.

THEY REMEMBER EVERY LITTLE THING YOU SAY

You can’t forget something you’re always thinking about, can you? If they’re thinking about you always, it’s a sign they love you.

THEY MAKE UNBELIEVABLE PROMISES

A person madly in love is usually in the habit of making promises sometime beyond his or her capability.

THEY TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW

There’s a difference between what you should know, and what you want to know. Someone who cares wouldn’t tell you what you want to know because they know that’s no good for you.

THEY WANT TO RIGHT YOUR WRONGS

The person seriously in love with you always tries to complement you by correcting your misdeed or your wrong with the hope that you will learn or change.

THEY THINK EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS CUTE

It’s hard to do wrong in the eyes of the one who loves you. In fact, they see you as a hero who is perfect.

THEY’RE VERY PLAYFUL WITH YOU

The person that becomes unnecessarily playful with you even when you are saying stop is no doubt in deep love with you.

ALL THEY CARE ABOUT IS NOT BOTHERING YOU

The person that is so much in love with you will always be so careful not to bother you or do things that you are not comfortable with even if he or she loves doing them, at least not when you are around.

THEY WANT TO FOOT THE BILL ALWAYS

Even if you’re very rich, they just want to do it because it’s their own way of trying to make you happy.

THEY CONSTANTLY IMPROVE ON THEIR SELF

He or she does everything possible to improve or get better for your sake. This is mainly to make you happy.

THEY’RE ALWAYS TEASING YOU

The person that is fund of teasing you in a good way such that you laugh is no doubt in love with you.

THEY BUY YOU A LOT OF GIFTS

Gifts are a way of showing love and affection. When a person continually goes out of their way to buy you stuff, they definitely like you.

THEY LIKE TO WATCH YOU SLEEP

The man or woman who is in love with you enjoys watching you while you are asleep, and with lots of joy.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO ENJOY YOURS

Long distance relationships are gradually fading away, and becoming increasingly unpopular amongst younger and older people, despite the increasing presence of social media and technology. This is against what was the order before now, when people from all around the world connected no matter how far away they were from themselves.

But regardless of the seeming drop in popularity, it doesn’t affect or change the fact that long distance relationships work, and can be successful if you apply yourself right.

Not everyone understands that it’s slightly different from normal dating, so it must be treated as such for best results.

Elcrema, in this post, will share some exclusive tips on how you can improve your relationship if you are in a long distance one.

1. Avoid excessive and boring communication. This is because depending on your partner, there’s a chance they could get bored and tired of the relationship sooner than you think. So you want to keep things as moderate as you can. But if it works for you, fine.

2. See it as an opportunity to also know how deep your relationship will be even when you aren’t together. Things may just get to marriage or a lasting relationship from there.

3. Set some ground rules to manage your expectations. Because it is not like regular dating, keeping some expectations trim is the best way to go. This is because it’s easy to get disappointed, and that can lead to heart-break. For example, you can’t expect to see them as often as though you stay together.

4. Try to communicate regularly, and creatively. Communication is still important. Just because we said you should do it in moderation doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep in touch about everything.

5. Avoid “dangerous” situations. You don’t want to get yourself avail enough to be tempted to do something that could ruin your relationship. They’re not there, but remember that walls have ears.

6. Be open and real with each other.

7. Do things together. If you want to build a string connection for yourselves – this is one way to do it. Get together, and enjoy yourselves when you can.

8. Do similar things. This also helps build your connection.

9. Make visits to each other. Just because you’re far away doesn’t mean you can’t see. They say, ‘out of sight, out of mind’. So, try to make sure you spend enough time together.

10. Have a goal in mind. There has to be something you’re looking for in that relationship. What is it?

11. Enjoy your alone time and your time with your friends and family. There’s time for everything, you know. You don’t want to seem too clingy or get bored from being with one person always.

12. Stay honest with each other. Honesty is very powerful. It can save a relationship and increase trust.

13. Know each other’s schedules. Understanding how your schedules are helps to understand their behavior. If you know when they’re busy, you’re likely not to feel ‘left out’ at times.

14. Be Spontaneous. Spontaneity helps keep the fun in your relationship. You don’t want to be rigid and difficult.

15. Gift a personal object for the other person to hold on to. That way, they have a piece of you with them all the time.

16. Get a good messaging app. It helps you stay in touch cheaply.

17. Stay positive. Know that you can achieve your goals in that relationship.

18. Keep each other updated on each other’s friends and family. Make them a part of what happens around you. They feel more loved that way.

19. Video-call whenever possible. A phone call isn’t the same as a video call. It’s more exciting to see someone you love while you talk to them, don’t you think?