DON'T DATE A BOY, DATE A MAN

*Understanding who is a boy & implications of dating a boy*

If you have the intention of marrying any time soon, please don't date a boy, date a man.

WHO IS A BOY?

A boy is anyone with a male organ who can't make decisions on his own. Anyone who is not willing to accept the responsibility of his actions and inactions. Anyone who lives in his father's house, eats his mother's food, and is not willing to do anything to change the status quo. A boy is anyone who is of age but can't do anything without consulting his parents, anyone who is remote controlled by his parents. If without your parents, you can do nothing, you are still a boy and shouldn't have any business in dating let alone marriage.

A boy is anyone who can't keep secret, who reveals what ought to be concealed.

A boy is anyone who can't advise you or caution you when you go wrong or do what is not right. A boy is anyone who supports your evil in the name of love.

A boy is anyone who the only language he can speak is sex. Whenever you visit him, he keeps pulling your panties and bra. Everything is sex to boys who lack sense. 

A boy is anyone who though he broke biblical, spiritual, and ethical norms by having sex with you, broadcasts it to his friends thereby committing fornication on one hand and murder on the other hand. Character assassination is equivalent to murder.

A boy is anyone who insists you commit abortion thereby putting your life in possible jeopardy.

A boy is anyone that whenever you are having discussion and you make marriage allusions, he automatically becomes cold.

A boy is anyone who has no plans for his own future let alone of yours. Anyone who can't picture the future and nurture a structure to capture the future. Anyone who discourages you from pursuing your God given dream.

A boy is anyone who roams around instead of engage in a meaningful activity no matter how menial.

A boy is anyone who uses money he doesn't have to buy tramadol and alcohol for strength to sleep with you and gives you the remaining one to buy Postinor 2.

A boy is anyone who puts his ears on ground to hear every gossip about you and changes his attitude towards you without even bothering to investigate and find out the truth.

A boy is anyone who is in a relationship with you and can't still keep his eyes off your female friends. He is on top of a palm  tree and still looking for another palm  tree.

A boy is anyone who borrows money to buy things just to please you. Anyone who lives a fake life, who boasts even with what he can't afford; anyone who can't be his real self in your presence.

A boy is anyone who beats you at any slightest provocation, anyone who lacks self-control, anyone who can't control his emotions, anyone without good sense of judgement, and anyone who harms himself or jeopardizes his career because of a woman.

A boy is anyone who drinks, misbehaves and sees nothing wrong with that.

A boy is any man who comes into your life and you become godless. He gradually drains the fear of God in you. 

A boy is anyone who threatens to kill himself when you are having issues in the  relationship. He may commit suicide in the near future and the society will blame you.