Is Dating A Hard Thing??

It's better to be single than to be in a teary relationship.

Dating is becoming hard these days because of hidden motives, zero transparency, everything is hidden, age, faith, education, character, lifestyle, Feelings, even names....

A lot of people are not honest with their intentions and emotions..

Anyone can say " I Love You" but not everyone can wait to prove it's love.

WHAT MAKES DATING HARD:

√🤗 Undefined purpose & Mission...

√🤗 Lack of Self control...

√🤗 Wrong mentality about SEX...

√🤗 Wrong Advice...

√🤗 Love of money & material things...

√🤗 Pretence and lies....

√🤗 Bad or wrong foundation...

√🤗 Following the crowd....

√🤗 Past experience....

WHEN DATING IS HEADING TOWARDS A WRONG DIRECTION:

~🤔 whenever you no longer feel his/ her presence emotionally and physically.

~🤔 When more focus is on discovering faults and yielding to weakness

~🤔 When there is a gap in communication and divided attention( I will call you back but will never call, unless you call again)

~🤔 When there is new rules and regulations ( Don't go through my phone and i will not go through yours too)

~🤔 Dont wait for me ooo ( If you see someone you can marry)

~🤔 When your relationship no longer makes you happy ( We are just there)

~🤔 When behavior and actions are repeated, despite corrections and apology.

~🤔 Constant conflict in conversation and discussion.

~🤔 When quality time is not given to the relationship( Always "I will")

SOLUTION:

😁√ There is every need to seat down and talk( Not in the room or hotel but in a garden or quiet environment)

😁√ Time to face reality and overlook emotions.

😍√ We are into this together, therefore we must sort it out together or peaceful separation.

😍√ Let's delete SEX and see if we LOVE beyond sex.

😍√ Lets build more on friendship and avoid public show.

😍√ Let's turn our WEAKNESS to our STRENGTH..

😍√ Let's avoid SUSPECTING and allow TRUST to override us..

😍√ let's believe we are the BEST and avoid DISTRACTION.
Love with purpose..(with a view for marriage)

Be real and never fake..(be John and not Johnson).
Be honest with your intentions..

In God We Trust.